MAYNILA, Pilipinas - Masaya ka bang naimbento pa 'yang letcheng pag-ibig na yan? Hati lang naman ang sagot ng tao e. Oo, kasi inlab ka. Hindi, kasi bigo ka. Well, well.. Hindi ako eksperto sa pag-ibig mga tsong at tsang. Pero inalam ko ang mga katotohanan at kasinungalingan pagdating sa pag-ibig. Simulan na natin!
"Hindi kailanman naging mali ang magmahal.."
FALSE
Love is blind, ika nga. So, this is the flaw: since you are blinded by the situation, edi you won't see how wrong it is! Tapos right after mo marealize na mali ito, you will then conclude na minsan may mali rin sa pagmamahal. I guess the main point of the thought is: hindi siya mali sa mata ng nagmamahal sa panahon mismo na nagmamahal siya. Pwede? Pwede. Kaso may "kailanman" e, and that ruins it! At magmahal ng ano? Pwedeng pera, yosi or alak. It depends, dude!
"Masakit ang magmahal.."
TRUE
Kahit gaano ka pa kasaya sa iniibig mo ngayon, there will be a point in time na masasaktan ka dahil sa kanya. And that is a fact. It just happens eh, so let's deal with it na lang. It is unavoidable part of human nature. Kaakibat na ng pagmamahal ang sakit na 'yan. Pero kahit gaano pa kasakit yan, kung mahal mo talaga yan, you can manage. Yan ang tinatawag na bangis ng pagmamahal.
"Ayaw sa iyo ng gusto mo.."
TRUE
..most of the time.. Humans are picky creatures! Pataas ng pataas ang standard ng tao base sa anong meron sa environment niya. Pansinin mo. Bakit ang pangit pangit pala ng crush mo nung elementary pero gandang-ganda (or gwapong-gwapo) ka na sa kanya noon? Kasi, yung crush mo stands out among the people around you. The person is special. Eh, ngayong naghigh school ka, mas nagdalaga or nagbinata ka na.. Everything changes and so is your crush! The main point ko rito is since we are picky, we tend to choose the best among the rest. So, kaya ka ayaw ng crush mo ay dahil hindi ka niya type, and no matter how much you try: may instance talagang wala ka ng magagawa dun. At tanong ko sayo, isipin mo ung isang taong type na type ka pero ayaw mo? Subukan mo ngang mahalin. Cannot be, diba? It also applies to your crush's choice. Kaya 'wag ka nang masiadong malungkot. Karma lang 'yan! Why not love everyone? Para ebrebadi hapi! :D
"Malungkot maging single.."
TRALSE
True: kasi walang sex? Biro lang. Malungkot kasi you live life alone. You have friends, family and your pet tiger pero iba pa rin ang merong kasintahan. Your soul is open to the other half of you--the lover. Whatever you can do, can't do, will do, won't do--alam niya and naiintindihan niya. And isn't it great to be with someone? Think of it.
and
False: kasi may kamay ka naman? Biro lang. Masaya rin kahit papaano. For guys, walang gastos masiyado.. mabibili mo na yang FHM magazine na yan. For girls, wala ng magpapaiyak sayo na scumbag na nilalang. The good thing about being single is that it's a good way to know yourself completely. You don't know yourself unless you take time to understand yourself. Kung never ka nabakante, you always tend to be dependent to someone--your other half. Pero people come and go, katotohanan yan. They will die e. So, ang akin lang.. being single once in a while is a good way to learn how to be really independent. At isa pa, ang mga single malungkot lang kapag Valentine's day, tama? Everyday is single's day, ika nga.
"Lahat ng love song e patama sa'yo"
TRUE
Kapag inlove ka, seems like lahat ng lyrics ng kanta e naaapply mo sa buhay pagibig mo. And imagine, you focus on the lyrics kapag inlove ka! Pero kapag single ka (like forever alone,) you focus sa tune lang, diba? At lastly, kapag brokenhearted ka, all love songs are heartbreaking for you kasi kapag positive yung meaning nung love song--you remember the sweet memories you've had, while the sad love songs remind you of your current situation. How freaking sad diba! Buti pa 'yung Crazy Frog, walang lyrics!
"Langit siya, lupa ako.. Hindi kami magkakatuluyan.."
FALSE
This is a complete bullshit. Never naging hadlang ang katayuan mo sa buhay, ang itsura at ang kayamanan sa pag-ibig. Well, sa umpisa, marahil. But there are actually success stories na rich-poor, ugly-pretty and boss-maid. Kahit gaano pa kalayo sa tingin mo ang sarili mo sa taong gusto mo, there is no point of giving up! I mean, unless artista yun at hindi mo naman nakakausap, patay tayo diyan. Pero kung kaibigan mo na siya or you sometimes talk or there is at least a reoccurring contact with the person, there is always a chance.. Ayee.. Nagsmile siya. Biro lang. Asa ka pa! HAHAHA!
"Once a cheater always a cheater.."
TRUE?
I never cheated so I don't know. :D Kidding aside, base sa aking mga nakausap, it is actually true, once na nagcheat ang isang tao (in any forms you may call it) there will always be a point in his/her life na magcheacheat siya ulit sayo (although it could not be as bad as he/she did before, there will be a point na ganun.. could be a little bit of flirting with a coworker or sexting with an ex or cheating sa pagiisip niya.) But don't you worry! I am not saying it is a fact.. It's just happens whether you like it or not. Ikaw mismo. You will see what I am talking about.. when you meet people who cheated once.
"Cheated once? You mean, cheating?" - Albert Einstein, in a parallel universe.
AND FINALLY.. like what I have told you..
The tenenenennenen... TURTLES!
Cute diba! They are making a baby of their own.
Hope you learned something.. For disputes, go to your mom! Or create you own blog! :) Opinyon ko lang naman yan e. Peace na tayo!
Teka, do you have love problems? Believe it or not, I can answer that! Comment below and I will feature it on my next post about lalalalalalove..
Call Me Jed™ (cc) 2013. This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 3.0 Philippines License.
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| My MATH exam answer during desperate times! My professor actually agreed. |
"Hindi kailanman naging mali ang magmahal.."
FALSE
Love is blind, ika nga. So, this is the flaw: since you are blinded by the situation, edi you won't see how wrong it is! Tapos right after mo marealize na mali ito, you will then conclude na minsan may mali rin sa pagmamahal. I guess the main point of the thought is: hindi siya mali sa mata ng nagmamahal sa panahon mismo na nagmamahal siya. Pwede? Pwede. Kaso may "kailanman" e, and that ruins it! At magmahal ng ano? Pwedeng pera, yosi or alak. It depends, dude!
"Masakit ang magmahal.."
TRUE
Kahit gaano ka pa kasaya sa iniibig mo ngayon, there will be a point in time na masasaktan ka dahil sa kanya. And that is a fact. It just happens eh, so let's deal with it na lang. It is unavoidable part of human nature. Kaakibat na ng pagmamahal ang sakit na 'yan. Pero kahit gaano pa kasakit yan, kung mahal mo talaga yan, you can manage. Yan ang tinatawag na bangis ng pagmamahal.
"Ayaw sa iyo ng gusto mo.."
TRUE
..most of the time.. Humans are picky creatures! Pataas ng pataas ang standard ng tao base sa anong meron sa environment niya. Pansinin mo. Bakit ang pangit pangit pala ng crush mo nung elementary pero gandang-ganda (or gwapong-gwapo) ka na sa kanya noon? Kasi, yung crush mo stands out among the people around you. The person is special. Eh, ngayong naghigh school ka, mas nagdalaga or nagbinata ka na.. Everything changes and so is your crush! The main point ko rito is since we are picky, we tend to choose the best among the rest. So, kaya ka ayaw ng crush mo ay dahil hindi ka niya type, and no matter how much you try: may instance talagang wala ka ng magagawa dun. At tanong ko sayo, isipin mo ung isang taong type na type ka pero ayaw mo? Subukan mo ngang mahalin. Cannot be, diba? It also applies to your crush's choice. Kaya 'wag ka nang masiadong malungkot. Karma lang 'yan! Why not love everyone? Para ebrebadi hapi! :D
"Malungkot maging single.."
TRALSE
True: kasi walang sex? Biro lang. Malungkot kasi you live life alone. You have friends, family and your pet tiger pero iba pa rin ang merong kasintahan. Your soul is open to the other half of you--the lover. Whatever you can do, can't do, will do, won't do--alam niya and naiintindihan niya. And isn't it great to be with someone? Think of it.
and
False: kasi may kamay ka naman? Biro lang. Masaya rin kahit papaano. For guys, walang gastos masiyado.. mabibili mo na yang FHM magazine na yan. For girls, wala ng magpapaiyak sayo na scumbag na nilalang. The good thing about being single is that it's a good way to know yourself completely. You don't know yourself unless you take time to understand yourself. Kung never ka nabakante, you always tend to be dependent to someone--your other half. Pero people come and go, katotohanan yan. They will die e. So, ang akin lang.. being single once in a while is a good way to learn how to be really independent. At isa pa, ang mga single malungkot lang kapag Valentine's day, tama? Everyday is single's day, ika nga.
"Lahat ng love song e patama sa'yo"
TRUE
Kapag inlove ka, seems like lahat ng lyrics ng kanta e naaapply mo sa buhay pagibig mo. And imagine, you focus on the lyrics kapag inlove ka! Pero kapag single ka (like forever alone,) you focus sa tune lang, diba? At lastly, kapag brokenhearted ka, all love songs are heartbreaking for you kasi kapag positive yung meaning nung love song--you remember the sweet memories you've had, while the sad love songs remind you of your current situation. How freaking sad diba! Buti pa 'yung Crazy Frog, walang lyrics!
"Langit siya, lupa ako.. Hindi kami magkakatuluyan.."
FALSE
This is a complete bullshit. Never naging hadlang ang katayuan mo sa buhay, ang itsura at ang kayamanan sa pag-ibig. Well, sa umpisa, marahil. But there are actually success stories na rich-poor, ugly-pretty and boss-maid. Kahit gaano pa kalayo sa tingin mo ang sarili mo sa taong gusto mo, there is no point of giving up! I mean, unless artista yun at hindi mo naman nakakausap, patay tayo diyan. Pero kung kaibigan mo na siya or you sometimes talk or there is at least a reoccurring contact with the person, there is always a chance.. Ayee.. Nagsmile siya. Biro lang. Asa ka pa! HAHAHA!
"Once a cheater always a cheater.."
TRUE?
I never cheated so I don't know. :D Kidding aside, base sa aking mga nakausap, it is actually true, once na nagcheat ang isang tao (in any forms you may call it) there will always be a point in his/her life na magcheacheat siya ulit sayo (although it could not be as bad as he/she did before, there will be a point na ganun.. could be a little bit of flirting with a coworker or sexting with an ex or cheating sa pagiisip niya.) But don't you worry! I am not saying it is a fact.. It's just happens whether you like it or not. Ikaw mismo. You will see what I am talking about.. when you meet people who cheated once.
"Cheated once? You mean, cheating?" - Albert Einstein, in a parallel universe.
AND FINALLY.. like what I have told you..
The tenenenennenen... TURTLES!
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Cute diba! They are making a baby of their own.
Hope you learned something.. For disputes, go to your mom! Or create you own blog! :) Opinyon ko lang naman yan e. Peace na tayo!
Teka, do you have love problems? Believe it or not, I can answer that! Comment below and I will feature it on my next post about lalalalalalove..
Call Me Jed™ (cc) 2013. This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 3.0 Philippines License.